GOD AND FINDING YOUR TRUE SOUL MATE

GOD AND FINDING YOUR TRUE SOUL MATE

Imelda M. Opinaldo
Philippines
For the special person searching for that unique person in life, it hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong persons before the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for the gift. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance in a relationship and find out that you still care for that person. A sad thing in life is when you met someone who means a lot to you but only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes, another one opens, but oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened to us.

The best kind of friend is the one who can sit on a porch and swing with never say a word and then walk away feeling that it was the best conversation you've ever had. Its true that we don’t know what we've got until we lose it but it is also true that we don’t know what we've been missing until it arrives. Giving someone all your love is not an assurance that they'll love you back. Don’t expect love in return, just wait it to grow in their hear, but if it doesn’t be content in yours.

There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person you would like to hear them from, but don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart. Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up, if you can still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person if you cant let go.

Love comes from those who still hope although they have been disappointed to those who still believe although they have been betrayed, to those who still needs to love although they have been hurt before and those who have the courage and faith to build trust again. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth or title/position even because that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be because you have only one life and chance to do all the things you want to. The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes their way. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends up with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. One day when you are not looking God will present to you your Soul mate.